True Love is rooted in Being. It would be only counterfeit love if one would try to satisfy the other?

with some donation other than His or Her whole self do you agree?True Love is rooted in Being. It would be only counterfeit love if one would try to satisfy the other?
Rooted is the key ... because out of a root it grows out to express it in giving love to others , so it is no counterfeit to express love because if you can give love then by true nature you love your self.True Love is rooted in Being. It would be only counterfeit love if one would try to satisfy the other?
A long time ago I thought that love was something that you reserved for some special set of people that you had judged worthy of it.





After a while I got to thinking about what Jesus had said about turning the other cheek and loving our neighbor I put the two together and realized that he had made no exceptions in these statements. It became obvious to me that he intended that we exclude no one from the love that we are supposed to be giving. I started thinking about my idea of love and suddenly realized that I had not been loving anyone at all. I had simply been judging everyone and every thing.





Judging someone worthy of love is not love, it is only judgment. I actually started to cry when I realized this. I saw just how much of my life I had wasted being judgmental, thinking of myself as a Christian, when I was actually doing just the opposite of what Jesus had asked us to do.





I thought about the verse judge not lest ye be judged, and I understood it for the first time.





I realized that I have a lot of catching up to do. So many opportunities were wasted. I now try to apply the love that I have for the world in a universal way like Jesus asks us to do.





If I start to feel afraid and think that I see someone that I should not love because of something I have thought or heard I try to catch my mistake as soon as possible. I tell myself that I have forgot the truth and have fallen for the same old trick that had cost me so many opportunities to be loving in the past. The horror of this realization is often all that is necessary to bring me back to my senses and make me drop the judgmental nonsense I was thinking.





I still have a lot to learn about love, but at least I鈥檓 making progress.





Love and blessings





Your brother


don
yes i agree,true love is rooted in the soul.for love to be completely real ,it has to take full commitment from both party,s involved.if one falters then it is all shot down in flames,and trust is tested to the ultimate limit,which weakens the bond.which then create,s serious doubt in the relationship.true love cannot be fake from one or the other involved.it as to be genuine.
If I have ten dollars - I give 3 to my friend and 4 to my brother and 2 to someone that needs it and donate to a can the last dollar.





I am out of money.





If I give love here, then there ,then again and again - it only grows and multiplies.





I still have all of my love and so do others.





A person can give up self to be for another - this may be dependency or some other equally errant thought or ';need';.





But





to give and doing it because of love is not bad.





though





to give and give up because of fear or dependency is not love it is fear.
No. What do I know of 'whole self', self is infinite in its incompleteness and finite in its measure. The whole self is dead if it is not its self.





The Will is positive, the Judgment is negative.
Hefer dust. Love is satisfying each other. One sided love is not love at all.
yes, but the spritual satisfaction you get is also so special.